In the most recent episode of ADHD Nerds, I interview Trina Haynes and we talk about how the ADHD Community is truly something special.
The online ADHD community really has come together to provide the validation many of us were missing growing up.
We need this validation because our intentions have so often been distorted and misunderstood.
Our actions betrayed us, and for a long time we couldn't explain why and we didn't even know why.
Many of us feel like we often need to overexplain our behavior to others, which often doesn't seem to help.
We do this because we're afraid of being misunderstood, of people thinking the worst and not seeing the real you—the you that tries to do good, wants to be liked, and wishes to do the right thing.
I didn't find out about my ADHD until I was 36 years old.
That's a long time to live blaming yourself, feeling like no one really understands the person underneath the flaws and mistakes that show up on the surface.
I just want to thank you for being part of this community, it's meant the world to me that we can all come together and learn together, support each other in the struggles, and laugh and make jokes about some of our common quirks and mistakes in a judgement-free way.
You make me better, you make me feel understood.
Thanks for reading.
Jesse J. Anderson
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